jgnat- Not as easy as you suggested, our lives have been destroyed, we have no formal education, no allies outside the JW cage, we see the world from a different lens, and what is more, relationship with family members is largely at stake.
Jane Austen the writer of "pride and prejudice" once said “Angry people are not always wise.” SO do not expect that someone in my shoe would do something differently and still keep families in and sustain livelihood.
“The only way to get through life is to laugh your way through it. You either have to laugh or cry. I prefer to laugh. Crying gives me a headache.”
― Marjorie Pay Hinckley